這是我的地盤~小紅

＊"I feel sad about my life,"you once said to me.
    "Why?"
    "Everything feels empty and endless."
    "What you want then?"
    "I want to find happiness."
    "You can't have happiness at all times. Sometimes you will
     be sad. Don't you think?"
   "But I don't see any happiness in my life."
   "Then what's your most near happiness?"
   ".....The sea."

嗯~我也愛海,總覺得看到海,內心平靜許多,也許,也正是海,
帶走我內心的雜質...

＊Love can be so pessimistic, and love can be so destructive.
    Love can lead a woman being lost, and in that lost world per-
    haps the only thing to do is leave to build a new world.

的確,愛情所帶給女人的失落,往往遠比男人來的強烈,
而想要快速抽離痛苦的深淵的方法,就是建立新的目標與方向.

＊YOU:"You can't have the future now. That's why it's the future."
      ME:"I disagree. Future comes from your plan, your real action."
    YOU:"No, that's not true. The future only comes when it
               comes. I don't believe in promises. How can you know
              the future now? You can only know the future when
              you get to the future."
     ME:"Does that mean you don't want future with me?"
            (I look in your eyes painfully.)
   YOU:"You're always worried about the future. How can
             we think about getting married when we keep fighting?
             You're never happy with the way things are, you always
            want it to be different to how it is. We can't be together
           if you don't accept my lifestyle and realise you can't
          change me. You can't always want me to be different
          from how I am."

是的,在愛裡,我們總想要改變對方,成為我們心中的理想對象,
如果對方是心甘情願改變的倒也還好,若是感到勉強,那天平
的兩端就不在平衡,就會開始感到痛苦不堪,所以,愛一個人,
應該愛他的本性,因為他是他,所以愛他...男人請試著了解女人,
之所以談到未來,是因為愛你們,體諒女人對於跟心愛男人共有
未來的嚮往及不安全感吧!

＊I love you more than I loved you before. I love you more
   than I should love you. But I must leave. I am losing myself.
   It is painful that I can't see myself. It is time for me to say
   those words, those words you kept telling me recently.
  "Yes, I agree with you. We can't be together."

這讓我想到最後的我們,雖然愛對方,但卻也不停的折磨對方,
帶給對方傷害,縱然我們不願意...但它確實發生了,所以我們找
了一個對彼此都好的方式,讓各自的生活回到正軌,也許在各自
不同的生活歷練之後,我們會找到更適合我們的相處方式,但在
那之前,我們必須在人生的道路上繼續學習,直到我們更了解
"愛"這個不容易的東西...